Putting Rejection Into Perspective

A leader is someone who takes charge, sets direction, and is decisive and confident in their actions. Leaders not only lead other people but also lead their own lives in the directions they desire. A fearless leader is someone who has no concern for rejection, has little fear of failure, and most importantly disregards unproductive criticism. Just like learning how to build attraction, you can learn to become a leader. In order to become a fearless leader you must have a high degree of social freedom.

Sometimes it's easier to know what you don't want in your life than it is to know what you do want. For example, prior to becoming a dating expert, I worked for small software company. It was very lucrative and I had flexible hours, but it never really fit my personality. As I began to develop my social freedom in my personal life, I noticed that something about me changed. I realized that the business world wasn't for me and that it was far too formal. I needed a job where I could create something and help other people. I needed to do something big. I just didn't really know what.

So what'd I do? I quit my job and moved to California to learn dating and attraction with the best of the best. Most people thought I was crazy, but I didn't care.

I had to do it. I knew that this field of expertise was something that I was passionate about and that I could really help other people with their own lives. I only had a finite amount of money saved up and I needed to do something quickly.

I decided to start a speaking and coaching business based in Boston. At first, I didn't have a huge amount of coaching experience nor did I have much speaking experience. I really didn't know if I would be any good at it. This is where my social freedom kicked into overdrive. My brain kicked around these thoughts all day long:

- If it doesn't work out, who cares?
- If people laugh at me, who cares?
- If I'm bad at it, I'm sure I can improve.
- If I fail, then I learned something new about myself.

Dropping my life and becoming a dating expert was a bold and scary move. It turned out that I was successful at coaching others and at speaking in front of large groups, but I wouldn't have ever known this unless I dropped my old life and stepped into a world of the unknown. Sometimes you just need to force yourself to make a change.

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